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Monday, 4 September 2017

Single Parent Encouragement

Hi everyone,

I made this blog post because lately I was in a doubtful mood and was feeling overwhelmed. I am always the positive one with the drive and ambitious but this week I have been feeling drained. I trust and believe in my God and I know he is always working in my favor. This week I just was in a funk; we're all humans and it happens. I work really hard with  a hectic schedule with two beautiful blessings and I'm still pretty young. I do everything on my own financially and it gets frustrating, because I feel like I made my children by myself and it isn't fair. Before you guys rank saying you choose your other half to have children with.  Let me start by saying this  I was young at the time 19 and people change over time also. I'm not the one to tell my business, but God placed me with this journey of mine to encourage others and one day write a book. 

Being a single mother isn't easy especially if the other half isn't supportive. A lot a people ask why didn't it work out? You guys "seemed" so happy. Pictures tell a lot of stories and in order to keep the children's sanity we had to act that way. Then one day it dawn on me if my children are watching mommy and daddy fight wouldn't that confuse them? I want my children to have great role-models to look up to to build their future. The disrespect wasn't worth it anymore it was embarrassing, I have a daughter and I wouldn't want any man to disrespect her she didn't need to see her mom being treated that way by her dad. I also have a son and when he gets older I would expect that he would be treating his woman like a queen that she is, and he wouldn't take his dads treatment as an example of how to treat her. I am not trying to bash anyone I'm just telling my story. I pray the father of my children becomes a wonderful man of God and a better father to his children he has the potential and I wish him the best.

The relationship was very toxic and I couldn't put up with it anymore. I needed an healthy home for my children and I, so I had to finally do what was best for us. I do not plan on getting back with him the damage is already done and can not be fixed we are not compatible. Be with someone you love not because you guys have children it's a waste of time especially if he is abusive psychically and mentally, run it isn't worth it. I believe five years of my life is enough years to try, and it was only getting worst. 

Men and women I share this story so you don't feel alone, with God at the center of it all trust me you can do it. I am a full-time student, I work a decent job, I'm an entrepreneur, I'm a Minister, and I have a lot of other things going on. How do I manage? I promise you it's all God he is awesome !! you also have to want it so badly that you organize yourself, you have to make a lot of risky decisions. I am not at the place I want to be in life, but I am getting there. I have improved so much beyond my years and I am proud of myself.

Don't let your struggles drain you push harder you're a conqueror. Remember, all the challenges you face now will be a humbling story to inspire others. In the last five years I've learnt that in the mist of everything to stay focus, stay determine and never give up and I believe you can do the same too.God wouldn't give you any battle you can not bare stay strong, stay faithful and remember you got this ! 

I hope you guys were inspired today 

Stay blessed and be blessed,

- Stacyann J xoxo 


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